DIY

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I understand the wish to sort everything out yourselves. Of course I do. These are your finances, your lives and it’s also a lot cheaper. However I know from separate mediation assessment meetings that people’s views as to what they … Continued

Reasons Not To Mediate Number Two

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We don’t get on. We always argue when we talk about this. He/she is completely unreasonable. We don’t agree. Well there you go. Just a small selection of the sort of things which people advance as reasons not to mediate. When people … Continued

Reasons Not To Mediate Number One

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Perhaps people’s main reason not to mediate, indeed not to seek any professional help at all, is that they can sort things out themselves thank you. They can of course and I understand what drives them. One is the fear of … Continued

Maps

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This feels like poaching but it’s really not, just spreading a great idea. If any of you get the chance to attend a training course run by Michael Jacobs, do go. I’ve been on a couple now. He is personable … Continued

Fame at Last!

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Mediating itself presents quite enough challenges and frustrations. However the greatest frustration for me is the lack of wide public awareness about mediation itself. On the occasions when I work with a couple who patently understand what mediation offers them and who therefore use it to best … Continued