Reasons Not To Mediate Number Two

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We don’t get on. We always argue when we talk about this. He/she is completely unreasonable. We don’t agree. Well there you go. Just a small selection of the sort of things which people advance as reasons not to mediate. When people … Continued

Reasons Not To Mediate Number One

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Perhaps people’s main reason not to mediate, indeed not to seek any professional help at all, is that they can sort things out themselves thank you. They can of course and I understand what drives them. One is the fear of … Continued

Maps

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This feels like poaching but it’s really not, just spreading a great idea. If any of you get the chance to attend a training course run by Michael Jacobs, do go. I’ve been on a couple now. He is personable … Continued

Fame at Last!

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Mediating itself presents quite enough challenges and frustrations. However the greatest frustration for me is the lack of wide public awareness about mediation itself. On the occasions when I work with a couple who patently understand what mediation offers them and who therefore use it to best … Continued

Limbo Land

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Statistics tell us that, out of all the divorces in the last year recorded, only about a quarter have a financial order. That is staggering in a country where home ownership is at a high level, let alone that there are … Continued